Finding the right person is very hard and very
wrong. It is best to be the right person for the one
you love and start from there.
You'll always end up disappointed when you set
standards and define a "right person" for you...and
don't rush things coz somewhere somehow God is
preparing somebody for you."
Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship
because you can never find love if you insist that
you are already into it. Try to find time to really
understand your real feelings, to know who you
really are, and what you really want in a
relationship.
You're right, there's no such thing as a perfect
relationship, but there's a compatible partnership
that goes along with it. If you already knew that
you're too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don't
give it a try.
You'll probably break it and pay for the damages
you have made. If you knew and felt that the
relationship will not last, don't go deeper into it.
You'll just suffer the consequences and live like
hell for the rest of your life. It's really hard to say
goodbye though, but you can't make it any better
by just pretending you still have the same feelings.
Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life
to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and
give your heart a much needed attention. Then you
will find that you have made the right Decision and
you made it all by yourself.
We call it love when we can't leave someone and
see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong,
it's just pity. We call it love when we're too
attached and think that losing the one we love will
somehow make us weak and unable to face the
storms of life. We misunderstood; it's just that
we're too much dependent to them.
We call it love when we give our whole life to them,
the wholeness of us and imagined that if they
leave, no one would accept us and our past.
We are mistaken, its just insecurity. But no matter
what the definition is, the truth still remains that
love isn't something you can buy or beg. It is real
and existing. You can't touch it but you can feel it
in your heart.You can't find it, but it will knock
before you when you least expect it to come. It
can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but
don't forget that it can also make you the most
miserable person in the whole galaxy.
"When you lose someone... and you think you
were the one who loved most, between the two of
you... he lost more. For someday you can love
someone the way that you loved him...But he will
never be loved again the way that you did."
Subject: something to ponder 
Fri Sep 19 2008, 17:25
thanks bro!
